Five things you might want to know
about building self esteem.

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Many programs focus on having you:

The person who overcomes low self esteem by building it largely: 

1. on his fortune, may commit suicide when his portfolio is lost in the stock market crash.
2. on the love of his wife may become depressed and acquires life-threatening cancer within 2 years of her passing and then dies himself even though he was in fine health prior to her passing.
3. on his position in life or job often becomes depressed and acquires a life threatening disease within 2 years of his retirement and dies.
4. on his social contacts and accomplishments may develop anxiety panic attack when he moves to another part of the country.
5. on his physical skills becomes has a greater chance of getting seriously depressed and likewise may acquire a life threatening disease when he has an incapacitating accident or is replaced by younger, stronger athlete.
   
6. And we can go on and on. For each person building self esteem based on an accomplishment, an ability, physical appearance, and so on,  they feel good about themselves for as long as their skills, abilities, and accomplishments remain in tact. Yet when their skills, relationships, accomplishments and so on change, they lose themselves in the process. Is this self-worth? No, it's "things' worth," not self-worth.

I realized that this is why so many fail at building true self esteem. What about you? Have your accomplishments, skills, relationships and so on helped you feel better about you? Does anything you have make you feel better about you?

It's like you have this 900 pound gorilla on our shoulders. No matter how many great opportunities you have or have accomplished—none of it matters if you feel crummy about you.

2

Many programs emphasize affirmations.

3

Goal Setting

Yes, many programs use the approach of setting and achieving goals to build self worth. While it's OK to have and achieve goals, goals in themselves can be an unrealistic way to build self esteem.

Should you fall short of a particular goal like it with John, your self esteem is in jeopardy. While you may have and achieve many goals, your self esteem should not be dependent on them for life is more often about dealing with the plans that fall through than it is about making plans. No goals are necessary to build self esteem with my program.

4

Many programs only educate the thinking conscious mind.

This approach could take forever. The limbic (emotional brain) lags behind the reticular (thinking cognitive brain). When you choose a program, make sure that the program nurtures the emotional brain otherwise, the thinking brain gets smarter and you get simply frustrated because you just can't seem to put the material into action. My program uses powerful techniques to bring the emotional brain up to date to agree with the new information the thinking brain is receiving.

5

Few programs utilize the power of hypnosis . . .

What about hypnosis? Does it conjure up images in your mind of a stage show you saw where the participants clucking like chickens or they participated in some kind of lewd behavior? Hypnosis can certainly be entertaining if that's the goal of the hypnotist. My goal is to provide you suggestions to educate both your conscious and subconscious mind into knowing beyond a shadow of doubt that you are a fine and worthy person. It's literally like the copy and paste function on your computer--I give you the suggestions and they are pasted into your subconscious mind.

1. It's also to realize that:
   Comparing ourselves to anyone else is to kill self esteem
2. Some of our best laid plans will simply fall through.
3. We are emotional beings and rather than be ruled by our emotions we can acknowledge them and move through them.
4. We each are a child of the universe deserving of feeling good about ourselves regardless of what we do or don't do.
5. We only feel less about ourselves because of what we've learned to believe.
6. Love of our physical, emotional, and spiritual self is deserved and until we can love ourselves, it's unlikely that another can love us.
7. Egotistical people really don't love themselves.
   

Just how do you build true self esteem the right way? Let's create a picture of someone who has self esteem. As soon as you put this formula to work for you you will feel good about you even on a bad hair days.

Sure you may be unhappy with your appearance at any given time, however, it doesn't make you feel badly about you.

You will be sensitive to the feelings of others and yet be free of letting the feelings of others (even though they may be negative or critical) detract from your self worth.

In the midst of making mistakes just as others make mistakes, it will not detract from your self esteem or how you feel about you.  Those without self esteem often wallow in the mistakes and feel badly about themselves even to the point of self put-downs or sickness.

Sure, you can feel badly about the mistake and say, "I made a lousy mistake and am unhappy about it," and be free of it affecting how you feel about you.

You'll also be free of bragging. sincere in your capabilities, have no need to exaggerate, and will be honest with you.

I will show you step by step—nothing left to your imagination--how to build self esteem.

A good place to start is to observe where improvement is required. For improving self esteem it's important to observe (not criticize) the sources of your role models' self esteem. It's important to also observe (not criticize) where your self esteem has come from in the past, i.e. what makes you feel good about you and what you need to feel good about you. Thus you'll understand the psychology of self worth and the causes of low self esteem.

Affirmations are a great next step. What is an affirmation? Answer: A self statement like, "I am a confident worth while person".

But maybe you've already tried them and nothing happened. Don't fret. The affirmation is only the beginning—your brain is an incredible computer and will create your affirmation as reality. But not if you question it. Like I said, affirmations is a first step. It's like you don't graduate high school with only first grade, but first grade is the foundation at that point of your development for your journey through high school.

Building self esteem my way connects you to Source—the essence of wealth and prosperity but not as as goal or an outcome, instead as a manifestation of life itself. Let me repeat that:
"You achieve wealth and prosperity as a manifestation of life itself-- connection to source—not from achieving goals or outcomes to make you feel better about you."

Next is to "become your own best friend . by learning how to manage your negative self limiting thinking. You can actually take negative self defeating thoughts and make them work for your benefit by acknowledging the negative thoughts and using option statements.

I will show you the most advanced thinking on the planet to become your own best friend. You'll never think of yourself as your own worse enemy again.

Self criticism in the past may have eroded your self esteem. You want to use negative emotional experiences to empower you in building self esteem through your experience of any emotion that life can throw your way.

Fact is that most of us are emotional cripples and we generally use two crutches—denial and avoidance. We rarely handle them well—especially the negative ones. With my program you throw away your crutches forever.

You learn to acknowledge your disappointments and your emotional reactions. You move through the emotional charge and use directional preference statements.

For instance, you tell yourself that you want to:
• learn from the mistake.
• see the situation in from a different perspective.
• forget about it.
And that even though you may be unhappy, you still like yourself.

This is your formula for improving self esteem on a daily basis as you discover how to like you on bad hair days or even in the midst of a blunder. Many years ago I used to come up with a dozen things that were wrong with me and want to jump off a bridge every time my life fell apart. Today, in the midst of crisis my attitude is, "I'm a fine person, maybe I'm on the wrong planet today."

How much would a new attitude like this be worth to you?
To determine how much to charge for this program I researched others. I bought programs by from gurus like Tony Robbins and Wayne Dywer—each for around $600. I attended conferences in hypnosis and self improvement and found programs there for two hundred or more dollars. But let me ask you, What is it worth to you to feel good about you? A thousand dollars?

Let me ask another question. How much do you think your low self esteem is costing you in dollars earned per year? Ten thousand, twenty or more? Now how much would this new attitude be worth?

Obviously it would be impracticable for me to charge you What This Program is Really Worth; and every geru I know of—even the Great Tony Robbins--would require a set of 6 cds to house this program. You've listened to these programs—they cost about $600 and the first cd is all about what the program is going to do for you and by the time you're fifteen minutes into the second cd you're thinking, "come on already—stop stretching it out and get to the point." And then you find that instead of 80 minutes of program on the cd, they only give you twenty-five minutes and you're thinking, "this is a gypt, They could have put this on two cds." and that's exactly what I've done. So why pay for a six cd program and all the hype when a two cd set will do the job.

I guarantee you that you won't be complaining about being bored, or that you were cheated, if anything, you'll be excited and frequently pushing the back button to make notes of the advanced thinking that you'll want to take advantage of every word said. But read on, it's also in book form.

Words can be to you as a scalpel is to a surgeon. This program is leap years ahead of the science and today is "state of the art."

Yes, the easy to use program to accomplish true self esteem is in four parts on two cds.

Part 1 lays a foundation for suggestions for improving self esteem. It gives you the easy a,b,c's for improving self esteem. It lays a foundation for the suggestions used in Part II.
Click here to listen to track I of Part I

Part II is for your subconscious mind. Do not listen to it while driving a vehicle as it may bring on sleep. Part II has suggestions for your subconscious mind for restoring self esteem. This side also has subliminal suggestions (suggestions that are below the audible range).

Part III lays a foundation for being your own best friend, brings your emotional brain up to date, and provides an incredible means of turning disappointments into benefits to profit from disappointments.

In other words, you will learn how to make the best tasting lemonade from the upsets that life sometimes throws at you and feel good about you—keep your self esteem--in the process.
This is the bible, so to speak for dealing with and handling emotions. Emotions are the challenge of the twenty first century.

Part IV , complete with subliminal suggestions, is for nurturing your subconscious mind (bringing it up to date to agree with your conscious mind) as you sleep. This part accelerates the process of building self esteem, being your own best friend, and turning disappointments into benefits.

First the ebook, How to get rid of Self Esteem Blues—a $21.95 value—your's free.

Secondly, The Self Confidence Builder—a $14.95 value—yours free. Everyday unconscious habits such as the Gallow's Laugh, Door Man/Woman and so on sell out your self confidence. Learn what they are, stop them and walk with a bounce in your step. But that's not all—master the art of assertiveness with nine rules of assertiveness.

Thirdly there's the “Love Yourself Before Others” e-book—a $14.95 value. It's normal for one to reject portions of the physical, emotional or spiritual self. Imbalance in any one of these three areas keep you from connecting with Source. Integrate your Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Self to connect with Source, build prosperity and maintain health.

Then there's the OverCome Life Crisis e-book—a $14.95 value. Life crisis threatens self esteem to the nth degree. If you're in the midst of a life crisis, value of life itself can be in question. The key is to move through the crisis, move on, re-identify yourself, and somehow benefit from the experience.

Lastly there's the Reclaim Sexual Self Esteem Report—a $9.95 value.

Over $250 in value for only $49.95. But act today—not because this is a limited time offer.
This offer will be available until my supply of cd programs is exhausted which might be a week or perhaps two, but that's not the real issue.

The issue is how many more days do you want to miss knowing the real you?
How many more days do you want to wake up feeling less than?
How many more days do you want the criticisms of others to cut through you like a knife cutting soft butter?
How many more days do you want to be down on you for your plans falling through?
How many more days do you want to be constantly comparing yourself with others?
How many more days do you want to feel like you're your own worse enemy?
How much longer do you want to hide behind thinking that you're too stupid, too uneducated, too fat, too short or tall, or ugly?
How much longer do you want to feel like an outsider who can't get in?
How many more days do you want to shy away from success?
How many more days do you want to be wishing that others really knew you for who you are rather then what you look like or sound like?
How many more crises that cripple your self esteem can you endure?
How many more days do you want to have to be buying new clothes or toys to feel better?